Parents

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Being a parent is the biggest comfort in human life because for the parents, everything is their own child and for the children too, only parents are available in the world. After becoming a parent, every person starts to feel like their life is complete, but if looked at correctly, it does not lead to full life, but actually the beginning of life and many responsibilities too. These responsibilities have to be fulfilled properly. No matter how small or how big your children are, they are always small for their parents, their father's duty never ends. Some such duties of parents are always necessary towards their children, in such a situation, today we will talk about a good parent and survival parent -

* Good Parents- In the world, everyone's parents are good, because there is no well-wisher of children greater than the parents. Today we are telling some important qualities of good parents who are a good parent-

1. Good parents have an identity, they love their children very much, take care of the children all the time, giving such love and affection to such parents does not make the child happy and flourishes well. In this way, the child's fascination also remains with his parents.

2. Parents always remain the inspiration of their children. This is the main reason why children learn everything from their parents. Parents should say everything in front of the children very carefully because some things have a great impact on the mind. Therefore, children should be given proper, respectful, and good behavior.

3. Teach your children to always tell the truth. Any questions about the child should also be answered. Children also learn the true lies from their homes.

4. Every good parent is disciplined and it is a very important quality that parents also teach their children to always be in discipline.

5. Good parents pay full attention to the education of their children whether boy or girl, they should get a full education. Because education is the medium that will take the child forward in the coming tomorrow and will also increase the progress of the country.

6. To keep their children healthy, vaccination should be done at the right time, which a good parent gives to the children and is also aware of their health.

7. Children also pay special attention to food and drink. It is very important that your child should eat clean and nutritious and at the same time, they should participate in exercise and sports as it also keeps the body healthy.

8. The children of parents who take time to understand and explain their children well have a good future, it is better to take some of your time daily for your children.

9. Always encourage your children because children always have a rate from their parents and this is also very important to some extent.

10. It is the most important thing to never compare your children to the children of others. In this world, every human has his own quality which is not like anyone else's. Compared to the other, the child starts to get away from his identity and ability.

 * Survival Parents: On the other hand, it is seen as Survival parents, i.e. parents who are employed throughout the day, who spend time in the office from morning to evening with their officers. By the time they reach home, it is evening. Far from their children, there would have been good parents but those parents are not able to pay so much attention to their children. Many times he leaves his children to grandparents or maternal grandparents or leaves them on day boarding due to job.

1. The biggest drawback of survival parents is that they do not answer any kind of questions to their children until they have time, and will give mobiles and laptops to children to spend time. Or watch TV. So that the child not only sits near the parents, but he is also busy with his gadgets.

2. Survival parents are so busy in their lives that they do not pay much attention in their home family, in such a way, if the child is admitted for education to a nearby school or tuition where his own time is not spent and the child himself goes to school Or go to tuition or go with the neighbor's children.

3. Employing parents are always able to pay less attention to their family and children at home. Such parents leave their children on self-sufficiency.

4. Some parents also want their children to be traditional in everything. Be it the field of education or other fields, the child plays an important role in his personality on his own.

5. Some such parents are able to spend time with their children on vacation only and not too much. For example, on Sunday, they stay together for some time on an outing, otherwise at home, they start some things in a limited time.

6. Children of such parents do not have much knowledge of right - wrong, true-false, good-bad, etc. These children accept their decision as just and parents also have to be happy in this way.

7. Survive parents believe that the child will learn in all the schools, but sometimes this is not true, the child learns a lot from the environment around him.

8. Such parents keep their child in accordance with the interest of their own, in which case it is natural for the child to be stubborn.

9. These parents put more emphasis on making their children self-reliant so that the child can develop on its own and even then, that child cannot depend on anyone in the future.

10. Children of such parents are often smart in studies as well as other activities like cooking, swimming, athletics, other sports, etc.

       This is evident from such comparative studies. Parents and children have a different relationship which takes care of each other and goes on from birth till death.